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Or am I missing something?
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10-26-2006, 03:36 PM | #85 (permalink) | ||
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However, the homosexual redefinition of marriage debate boils down to govt acceptance of their lifestyles. Thus, you can logically conclude that they will insist on homosexual issues in the public school system's sex education curriculm. Do you not agree with that?
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10-26-2006, 03:46 PM | #86 (permalink) |
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Of course I agree with that, and I expect it will be limited in much the same way heterosexual sex education is limited. I'm not at all sure what sex education program you or your kids went through but mine was pretty much limited to, "Use a condom. Use birth control." As many straight couples as gay couples engage in oral sex, anal sex, rimming, mutual masturbation, fisting, toy usage, bondage, dress up, etc. They're just things people do in their bedroom and you can guarantee that none of them are taught or talked about in sex ed at schools. Sex ed in schools is mostly a "This is how things down there work, use a condom" routine. I see no reason why that would change if gay marriage and culture were more prevalent.
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To be fair to Frosstbyte and every other dissenting voice, a single pamphlet incident doesn't even come close to making NCB's case. And it still seems like a big leap to draw the conclusion that gay marriage will make these pamphlets acceptable to the status quo. Sounds like a slippery slope to me. And the thing about slippery slopes: if they really exist, then there's NO safe place to rest. You might as well restrict marriage to Christians, for if marriage under the wrong or no God is acceptable, then why isn't polygamy? Neither "polygamy is different because x, y, and z" nor "polygamy is also okay" actually does anything for the anti-same sex marriage side. Nevermind that we make and stick to arbitrary standards all the time. "If we raise the drinking age to 21, what's stopping it from going to 22 or 25?" "Um, people who don't want it that high, that's what."
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10-26-2006, 04:21 PM | #89 (permalink) | |
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The problem is that the closest you can usually get is possible, which really doesn't cut it.
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10-26-2006, 06:07 PM | #90 (permalink) | |
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10-26-2006, 06:19 PM | #91 (permalink) |
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My wife's sister married a young man who later went to Iraq. While he was there she got pregnant with another man's baby. Before they could get divorced, he went on his second deployment and was killed by an IED within weeks of coming home where he hoped to finalize the divorce and marry his new girlfriend.
Guess who collects a check every month now and won't marry the freak she is dating because she will lose the benefits. Benefits go to the wrong person all the time. It is just that it is too easy to sit on a moral high horse and decide that two homosexuals can't be as in love as heterosexuals and that our civilization will end if gays are afforded the same rights as the rest of us. If Tom and Bill or Janet and Chrissy love each other give them same rights to benefits and decisions as my wife and I have.
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10-26-2006, 07:20 PM | #92 (permalink) | |
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First of all, amending the definition of "marriage", or allowing for a secondary term to be created, to grant the same rights and privileges to same-sex couples as hetero couples, would mean that the government is finally recognizing the legitimacy of the rights of individuals to be unified through civil law, without regard for the sexes of the two people. Every piece of legislation which has expanded the rights of individuals, has done so because the government recognized the legitimacy of that right. At points in history, the government has recognized that men who do not own land should have the same right to vote as those who do, that people have the same right not to be slaves or the property of another person regardless of their skin color, that those ex-slaves (men only) should then be given the same right to vote as white men, that people who could not afford an attorney would be given the same rights and privileges as those who could afford them for representation in court, and eventually that women should be afforded the same rights to vote as men already had. This is just another step in the growth and maturation of a society which progressively recognizes that all people- ALL PEOPLE- should be granted the same protections under the law, and the same rights and privileges the laws afford them. Second of all, humanity is rife with examples of some yahoo or small group of yahoos who do stupid shit that messes up the image of the larger subculture they claim to be a part of or represent, who act on their own and do not in any way represent the general viewpoint of the rest of the subculture they identify with. It seems in this case, however, that any time a person who is gay says x, y, or z about anything, or does anything, you take it as "the word" of *"the gays". You then take one random instance of a pamphlet sitting on one table at a G/L/B/TG conference and extrapolate that it's 1. public school curriculum for middle school students (which was patently false, despite your initial assertion that it was a fact) and 2. that "the gays" are trying to pervert "our kids" with their "homosexual agenda", teaching 12 year olds about rimjobs and fisting. In conclusion: time erodes those opinions that withhold rights from the people of America. Time creates better understanding, allows for education to reach those still clutching at the issue by the puppet-strings of ignorance handed down to them, and sees to it that the rights and privileges of every individual are equal, and guaranteed by law. *Note: Use of quotations around certain phrases is used to recreate the language used by the side i'm debating against, and are not my intentional or normal lexicon on this subject. Last edited by analog; 10-26-2006 at 07:22 PM.. |
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Add my applause to Analog for the clarity of his analysis.
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10-26-2006, 08:06 PM | #97 (permalink) | |
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Anyway... supporting it or not are some of you actually going to lose sleep over it? Is it that big of a deal? Homosexuality isnt going to go away if the laws dont pass. Your kids will still end up finding out about it eventually. Let them be, let them have a civil union or a marriage or become life partners, whatever! Your lives will still go on, I promise! Can we please stop fighting now and just be happy? (No Sage) OK, well I tried... carry on.
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10-26-2006, 08:12 PM | #98 (permalink) | |
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I wanted to respond to this earlier, but this is the first chance I've had to get in here since this thread exploded. First let me assure you that I have no intention of flaming you. I think you bring up good points that are worthy of discussion. People often share similar viewpoints for exceptionally different reasons. Allow me to give you an example if I can find one that makes sense. Let's use the historical example of the abolitionists. Some abolitionists argued that slavery was wrong from a moral standpoint, claiming that the enslavement of any person or group of people is and was unjust. Others argued that slavery gave the South an unfair economic advantage but had no problem with laws that treated black Americans as less than citizens. Within historical context, our society views the second group as racists, even though they favored an end to slavery. Now, you argue against gay marriage under the same reasoning for maintaining the illegality of polygamy and incest. I can understand why you would argue this and while I vehemently disagree, I can at least see where you are coming from. However, others are arguing against equal marriage rights for gays and lesbians because they think homosexuals are deviants and not "normal". They piggyback on the arguments of others because they have nothing outside their own bigotry on which to state their case. They're bigots, plain and simple. As to why the term "bigot" is not used to identify those against polygamy and incest I would say: polygamy and incest are lifestyle choices. One is not born a polygamist nor an incesticist (I may have made that word up). There is evidence - thoughly hotly debated - that homosexuality is a genetic trait. Therefore, we are placing limits on what they may or may not do based upon something over which they have no choice. Marginalizing and castigating a group of people based upon a genetic trait is bigotry. Of course, many people firmly believe that homosexuality is a choice, so that makes the argument moot. Until there is definitive proof that homosexuality is either a choice or a trait, this argument will continue. As far as putting it to a vote, the only issue I have with this is that rights are rarely granted to protect the majority. They are there to ensure that the politically powerless are not treated unjustly by the politically powerful.
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Thank you, JJ, for pointing out something that is so incredibly important to us, whether we realize it or not.
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That aside, if the legislature chooses to make civil unions I can easily see it getting overturned by the supreme court. Brown v. Board of Education and Bolling v. Sharp outlaw seperate but equal laws. Thus I believe givien 1-5 years gay marriage will be legal in NJ. And hopefully the rest of the states will follow suit within 10 years of that. Last edited by analog; 10-27-2006 at 12:00 AM.. |
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A reminder, because something was said a few posts up: If you want the mods to do something about something, the best way is to use the "report this post to a moderator" link on any post in a thread, or PM one of us- especially one who might already be posting in the thread. Either way, this is the preferred way to get across an issue with a thread, a poster, or a particular post. Part of the reason for this is simply so a person is not calling out another person in the thread, causing more problems within the existing thread by calling out that person in public. To address what was said... so far, everyone seems to be keeping it relatively civil at this point. If flaming begins, it will be addressed then... but for now, it's remaining civil enough, especially given the topic. That issue is closed for now, so now we can get back to the discussion. (that means let's all move along and not jack this thread talking about it. If anyone has anything further, feel free to PM me and i'll be happy to discuss things with you) [/MOD NOTE] Last edited by analog; 10-27-2006 at 12:10 AM.. |
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Perhaps its your youth, but to not recognize that issues like this affects other future issues is naive. I'll put it this way: If the govt legitimizes the HROM, how could they possibly deny the sex education to students from the homosexual perspective? Its not that much of a leap.
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10-27-2006, 05:28 AM | #104 (permalink) |
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Our government 'advocates' for many abominations listed in the bible.
Eating food that blood in it, like hamburger "shall be cut off" (Leviticus 17:14); Eating fruit before a tree's fifth harvest. Tattoos. Shaving your sideburns. Harvesting all the fruit in your fields (you leave some for the poor). I'm betting everyone here seeing Homosexuality as a sin have committed or condoned every sin listed above. It's amazing how some cherry pick the sins they want out of that book and ignore the rest. |
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Possibly not specifically referenced, (I haven't read every single post in the thread), but that is the bedrock reason behind the opposition to it.
Lots of code gets spoken, but 'traditional meaning of marriage' is a reference to the religious aspect of it. There is NOTHING behind the opposition to gay marriage and even civil unions, save an opinion that it's a sin and that our government shouldn't be advocating it. If you just think two penises are 'icky' and not that it will tear apart the very fabric of reality, you wouldn't have a problem with two consenting adults entering into a relationships with benefits. Just because you aren't a 'strong' christian, doesn't mean it's value system isn't one of your building blocks. |
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Wow, this is a heck of a thread! My contribution is a quote from a comedian MC-ing the Mexican wrestling show I attended last night: "If you're against gay sex, then you should support gay marriage. That's the *only* thing that will stop gay sex..." Bwahahaha!
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10-27-2006, 08:09 AM | #108 (permalink) | |
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Even in the case of a valid slippery slope, though, you still have to weigh that risk against the benefits of taking that risk. Not to mention, in this case, explain why the bottom of the slope is a bad place to be.
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10-27-2006, 11:27 AM | #118 (permalink) | |
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Your presence here encourages homosexual activity. Or do you ignore that we have a 'Titty Board' where half the threads are lesbian in nature. A Full Monty that has fabric-of-reality-tearing gay sex. Off the Wayside that is virtually no holds barred. And the Links and Requests board where many are encouraged to view or request gay and lesbian content. Why then, are you here? You support this board by either adding your own content, such as your posts in this thread, or by giving money to help it run. You, NCB are encouraging homosexual activity here. For SHAME. Last edited by Superbelt; 10-27-2006 at 11:29 AM.. |
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TADA!...*trumpets blaring* *WAIVING HANDS!!!* SOMEBODY mark this date on the calendar!!!!! Ustwo and I have actually agreed on a point in a thread!!! OMG!!! ( I hope you got the humour in that Ustwo! )
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