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I decided about 12 years ago that I was going to accept me as me. My heritage is "rubenesque" thus, so am I. Following a year of trying to loose weight and not succeeding, I took a fitness test. At 170 lbs I was only 1 lb. above my ideal body weight. I am very muscular, strong and curvy. I still struggle once in awhile and can understand what Anti is talking about; but for the most part I'm healthy and happy -- so I embrace my big breast and large hips and celebrate being me.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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