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I can completely understand why she wouldn't be sure about having more kids in the current situation. If your marriage is kind of rocky, perhaps you should address what's at the heart of the issues you keep having before you think about adding more stress to the mix in the form of another child or two. Of course she's not sure about this, given the way your relationship sounds! She hasn't said she definitely doesn't want to, just that she isn't sure - and good for her for being honest instead of telling you what you want to hear just to make things easy.
My advice would be to put this (the kids issue) on the back burner and deal with the other issues, keeping in mind that this is going to have to come up again. Go to a good marriage counselor and figure out what you both want out of life and out of this relationship.
Good luck!
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