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Also expect her to back out on a date here or there. Finding a sitter you can rely on is a real hard thing to do. Maybe try to take her someplace that she can take the kids with and suggest she do so. Don't do it all the time but sometimes not having to worry about a sitter is a relief. Maybe MAYBE with her approval you could help find a sitter. Like if you have sister or friend who's good with kids and willing to do it. Help out with paying this sitter if you can too. She may put the kids first before your relationship. Don't get upset about this. She's had ONLY the kids to care for during this time. She is responsible for them. Be patient and you could end up with a wonderful woman and kids too.
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