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She also locked the door on one of my day care parents when they brought their kid.
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Of course Im not there and I don't know everything that goes on there, but what you said above might be a clue. She resents the attention and care you provide to the *other* kids. Maybe in her mind, she thinks that they must all be more important to you than she is, because its your job to take care of them every day, you have to feed them, change diapers, stop the crying, entertain them, make sure the parents are happy, etc...And she can't understand all this.
My advice would be to take her to a professional, a child psychologist/psychiatrist, to see if all of you can get to the bottom of it together. I recently went through a divorce and my daughter started acting out. We took her to see a doctor, problems were identified and a course of action was layed out. Not saying that things are now all rosy and there are no more conflicts, but its a start in the right direction I believe.
Good luck...parenting is the toughest job in the world. (2 young kids here.)