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Originally posted by lurkette
I don't meant to throw water on the very romantic fire, but I would advise you to proceed with caution. He does sound like a nice guy, but drunken marriage proposals are generally not the basis for a sound relationship  When you get the chance (if distance no longer becomes an issue) by all means date the guy, but proceed slowly and with all due caution. My first boyfriend was also a romantic musician. I'm not married to him. Long story for another day, but bottom line, I would advise you to keep a level head, which you seem to be doing.
If nothing else, it's a GREAT story! 
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I'm with lurkette here. Strange what things happen when under the influence. I have male friends with whom I have colorful histories and it's comforting to be with them because they know me so well, but I wouldn't accept marriage proposals from any of them. I think making a history with someone can be what builds a relationship. Date him and see where it goes. I have to wonder though, why would you have dated this other guy if there had been any underlying interest in Nick? Don't do a rebound - that's real trouble. He sounds like a nice guy who has probably had a crush on you for some time. Take it slow and maybe something incredible and unexpected will develop. Tell him that it's a little early to discuss marriage and you'd like to spend some more time with him without that pressure. If it's meant to be then it's meant to be.