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babaloo · 05-01-2003, 02:36 PM

Thanks all for your advice. As to the questions:

The kids are young - less than 4 years old. There are pros and cons with this.

The state I live in is a no-fault divorce state. That doesn't mean that I won't be rectally assulted in court but it's a start.

And most importantly you're all right - back off for a while to sort out my emotions. As Lebell correctly pointed out I'm mixing two problems into one, and, as rouge49 also correctly pointed out masking out one problem with, in effect, another.

clockworkgreen, don't point to me as an example. Many marriages fail. Many succeed. Learn from both of those.

Lastly, Assman69, I can tell it was hard for you to say what you said. But it spoke to me deeply. Thank you.

05-01-2003, 02:36 PM	#11 (permalink)
babaloo Upright	Thanks all for your advice. As to the questions: The kids are young - less than 4 years old. There are pros and cons with this. The state I live in is a no-fault divorce state. That doesn't mean that I won't be rectally assulted in court but it's a start. And most importantly you're all right - back off for a while to sort out my emotions. As Lebell correctly pointed out I'm mixing two problems into one, and, as rouge49 also correctly pointed out masking out one problem with, in effect, another. clockworkgreen, don't point to me as an example. Many marriages fail. Many succeed. Learn from both of those. Lastly, Assman69, I can tell it was hard for you to say what you said. But it spoke to me deeply. Thank you.