Pencilneck

Both on the giving and receiving end?

I always thought I'd like intercourse better, but since I became really sexually active with my girlfriend, it isn't as good as I expected. I think part of it comes from the fact that we always use a condom (no exceptions!) and that my girlfriend never seems into it. She tires, I know, but it is always a "lay there and take it" sort of thing, which doesn't appeal to me.

However, when I'm giving oral sex she really gets into it (I rarely get to brag about anything, but in this respect I'm really good) and I like getting that response from her. I also enjoy it more when she gives me oral (but she rarely has the stamina for it) so we usually resort to what I like to call "going for a boob-ride" because I am a boob fetishist. But it turns out way better than intercourse.

We've been together for almost three years and hardly ever have intercourse anymore.

I was wondering what other posters here prefer.