Pencilneck

Both on the giving and receiving end?

I always thought I'd like intercourse better, but since I became really sexually active with my girlfriend, it isn't as good as I expected. I think part of it comes from the fact that we always use a condom (no exceptions!) and that my girlfriend never seems into it. She tires, I know, but it is always a "lay there and take it" sort of thing, which doesn't appeal to me.

However, when I'm giving oral sex she really gets into it (I rarely get to brag about anything, but in this respect I'm really good) and I like getting that response from her. I also enjoy it more when she gives me oral (but she rarely has the stamina for it) so we usually resort to what I like to call "going for a boob-ride" because I am a boob fetishist. But it turns out way better than intercourse.

We've been together for almost three years and hardly ever have intercourse anymore.

I was wondering what other posters here prefer.

crewsor

I find recieving oral sex extremely exciting, as well as giving oral sex. But if I had to pick only one to have forever it would definately be intercourse. Its all good but nothing compares to good old all around intercourse.
Oral for us is more foreplay than actual sex. It would be tough to do without but not having intercourse would be unimaginable to me.

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Yalaynia

I love all 3 but I fall into the same boat as crewsor if I do have to choose.

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tenchi069

I voted intercourse only because there wasn't a choice for all three. As crewsor said, if I had to pick only one to have forever it would be intercourse, but I love giving as well as receiving oral.

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rsl12

giving oral sex is so intimate, and you're in your right state of mind, so you can experience all 5 of your senses.

When i'm on the getting end of any sexual activity involving my penis, i tend to start going off into my own little world. nice, but i prefer to realize that my partner is there with me.

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WarWagon

Watching a girl squirm, moan, and get off from giving her oral is better than sex itself.

Strange Famous

I think intercourse is more intimate

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Plan9Senior

Sex of course. Blowjobs are nice, but nothing beats good sex. As far as going down on a girl... well... I don't do that unless I really care about the girl.

Holo

Overall I prefer oral as I can totally relax and be into what is being done to me. I like having intercourse and the control and power giving her pleasure makes me feel, same as oral. I love oral becuase my favorite part of a woman is wrapped around my head...her inner thighs. Wait, what was the question?

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Arsenic7

Well, so far I'd have to say intercourse is the most satisfying for the both of us but neither of us generally orgasm from oral and just use it as foreplay. Plus she has a weird fear of getting cum on or in her unless she's really excited and intercours is about the only thing that will let her get that way.

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absorbentishe

I love sex, don't get me wrong, but... When I go down on my wife, it's so cool when she climaxes. Just knowing the right button to push at the right time, the ways moves, moans, that's awesome. Her skill at giving are fair, and she doens't really like to, and sex itself is fine, but she could do more. But if I had to choose forever, I guess it would have to be sex.

theguyondacouch

Out of all three I like intercourse better, but i like to give oral more than receive oral.

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Harshaw

I love giving oral. Of the 3 girls I have given oral... 2 of them made the best noises. Really as far as I am concerned... I could happily give a girl oral, finish myself off and fall asleep a very happy man.

0 out of 3 knew how to give a good hand job... and thats what I am looking for. Old habits die hard I guess.

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crfpilot

69 fo sho!

jazzwyld

I'm with ya Pencilneck. I love giving oral. I like receiving oral. Especially when she meets eyes with me, that really gets me going. I also like meeting eyes with her, just something about that moment.

Yeah, sex is great, but oral is so much fun, and I can boast the same ability of being a gold medalist. And yes 69 is great as long as you've got close to the same torso length.

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Markaz

Both are good, but I'll take oral. Just something about it makes me love it so much more.

Plus you can do it in the car!

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Mephex

Intercourse. I consider giving/receiving oral to be foreplay.

Evil Milkman

Intercourse... In fact, I want to right now. But can't. Sadly.

ariekitten

i really love oral, most of all i love giving it, but i can't think of anything better than a good old fashioned man-to-woman sex session.

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digme

theres just so much variety you can bring to intercourse

although, oral sex is pretty fucking cool too

skysooner

Intercourse first, giving oral second, receiving oral third

txlovely

If I got more feedback, I'd give more often. My SO is very generous in the giving department and I'm always grateful and verbally appreciative. However I'm with ariekitten - nothing like a marathon sex session using every position imaginable until you collapse exhausted and sweaty. There's no wondering whether or not the other person is into what you're doing
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If I had to chose.

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macmanmike6100

intercourse overall, but there have been some really good blowjobs bestowed upon me....

CinnamonGirl

Overall, intercourse is better...but when you rarely get oral, it ups the preference a bit

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tec-9-7

1) Intercourse
2) Giving oral
3) Receiving oral

2kids1headache

69ing. BJs are nice, but don't compare to giving head. Both giving and receiving, though, that's nice!

I think intercourse holds less appeal to me lately because my girlfriend is pregnant.

alpha

Intercourse.. Though I like giving oral sex a lot. I don't have that much experience in recieving it.. hope that I will in the future.

uptown

I prefer giving him oral over any other activity.

PDOUBLEOP

Gimme an "O"...Gimme an "R"....nevermind

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tisonlyi

All are fantastic in their own ways...

This is like trying to choose between cakes , beer and chocolate.

woo.

No chance.

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smithja0423

Bingo. I love giving oral to a willing participant, but my current girlfriend just can't get off that way.. I'm the same way. Oral on me serves one purpose... get me hard so we can get down to the main event.

bparker805

I really enjoy going down on a woman. But its a two way street for me. If she isnt willing to go there for me, I wont. But if she is, look out! Im the kinda guy that will stay down there for a while and try to get her to the multiple O stage. But I also like to get my hump on too. And if I can get some attention from a woman after a good romp, well I would go to sleep a very happy man.

World's King

I will chow box till my tongue falls out.

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sailor

Haha, what he said. Gotta love going down on a woman...

I never did like the 69 thing. The position just wasnt conducive to either of us really getting into it, so it was a little lackluster.

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Yuiop

Intercourse is great but it is ALL great really.

I bare back with my gf so it is great. Sex with a condom is bad...

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Alyssa

I'm not into the whole giving oral to my bf because my jaw gets tired...I love receiving it though. Intercourse tends to hurt sometimes....so I say receiving oral is my favorite.

Tholo

Oral.

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Blackthorn

Giving a woman a hummer and hearing/seeing the response is magical but I prefer the good old fashioned in and out. Thumping and humping the mattress mombo is the best thing going!

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HYEHORSE

ive always been a giver, I LOVE GIVING ORAL SEX. recieving is great too, but the best pleasure is to know your giving pleasure. very tough poll to answer.