There are no fairytale endings when it comes to any relationship. No matter how hard we try to force it to be like one, it's just not imperically possible.
I say you don't need an excuse to call her. Call her just because you want to. There is no need to explain to her or yourself why you want to. Just go with it.
You are much harder on yourself than you need be. If you are concerned about your weight or feel that it prevents you from getting the girls, then by all means go to a gym or buy some workout equipment. Concentrate on your image and get yourself feeling confident in your appearance and yourself as a person. The best way to attract any female/male is when you exude confidence in yourself.
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