turbodriven

First of all... I have to say... ignore this. You being her first hold a very important role in her life. If you dump her because you think she's inadequete sexually, it's going to scar her for the rest of her life!

Second of all... seriously consider looking into what kind of birth control she is using. Birth control is notorious for sucking the sex drive right out of a woman. And why shouldn't it... sexual intercourse is driven by reproduction. And if her body has stopped producing something required for that equation... then poof... her body is now telling her "why have sex?"

Third and lastly... make sure she feels sexy. Not beautiful, or smart, but SEXY. Women enjoy being sexy... and being sexy and seeing the reaction that it makes in you will give her drive. Take her to some lingerie shops... or sex shops... tell her candidly how sexy she would look in something or using something. Buy her some things! Educate her in a subtle way on how healthy sex is. Women are mental creatures... they need to be comfortable in their head with who they are with and what they are doing. Men just need three holes and a heartbeat. So respond to what a woman responds to... and she'll get just as turned on as you do seeing her strut around naked.