1) Not all women have a "magic button." (Nor do men.) We're not light switches.
2) Sounds like your sex drives don't match. You can live with it or move on.
3) Be happy that she's not asexual.
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I have talked to her about it, numerous times, and for the most part she understands. Ive asked her "What turns you on, what turns you off, what gets your motor running" and she really doesnt have an answer for me.
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4) The sad truth of the matter is that a large majority of women don't know what turns them on. Asking her explicitly is probably the worst way to go about it if she has very little sexual experience (with herself or others). You can suggest she try to masturbate on her lonesome. If that doesn't work (too scared or lonely or whatever), help her out. Make her experiment and she'll figure things out, and so will you.