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Originally posted by Mephex
Something about putting her on a pedestal, treating her like the goddess she really is, and showing her that she has nothing to fear emotionally from you, and she will open right up.
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Helping us to feel relaxed and comfortable with you works wonders. Know what else works? No pressure on the girl, and a wonderful massage to make her forget all that school / work / life related junk. Make her feel like you are the only two people in the world.
Speaking from experience (and it sounds almost as if I am the girl you are talking about) if a girl is stressed out and tired and totally and completely preoccupied, telling her that you aren't getting enough from her will only make matters more tense. Be sweet and gentle and kind. And above all else, be patient.