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Probably not what you want to hear, but here goes.....
If she decieved your brother in an attempt to "seal" the relationship, It is not your affair. If she did not, it is not your affair.
Unless you are commited to watching over your brothers life for the forseeable future, You must let him make his mistakes, and descisions.
Everyone will make the path they need to for this time. None of the choices are inherently bad in the long run.
O>K> enough psycology for now....
Now...you are basing your opinions of this girl on your perception, is this perception flawed, I dont know. She sounds very young from your description, as we all are at first. Perhaps she will grow into a better person in time, perhaps not.
I recommend you make the best of the situation and swollow your obvious dislike. She may end up being good for him in the long run.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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