The way you describe the relationship doesn't sound bad to me. Most of a good relationship is built around giving to each other. If for some reason, she is not giving then you shouldn't be in the relationship. My wife and I are to the point where we just give and give to each other without even thinking about it. We don't tally points or anything like that. However, it takes awhile to get to that point. Don't misinterpret her comfortableness (or possibly her taking the relationship for a little granted) to kill it. You absolutely have to talk to her about your feelings.
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