I don't mean to be harsh, but if you're being used it's because you're letting yourself be used. If you're doing things for her with the expectation of certain actions in return, and you're not getting anything back, then you either need to make it clear to her that you do expect some reciprocity, or you need to find someone who does give back to you. Staying around and being a kicked puppy about it is not a valid option.
How much of your identity is built around giving and caring for other people?
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