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Originally posted by skysooner
It is so easy to misinterpret actions. The whole situation might be a complete misunderstanding. It is very easy to feel used and not say anything about it (i.e. suffer in silence). What is hard is talking to her about it. A heart-to-heart talk with her where you are not trying to put her on the defensive is the only way you are going to be able to tell if she is genuine or not.
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I agree with this statement.
You have to talk about the way you feel with her, without accusing her of anything. Basically you have to take the blame for everything by telling her that is the way you feel.
Then you have to judge her reactions and the things that she says. The way she reacts will tell you the whole truth to the situation.