I have talked to her about it, numerous times, and for the most part she understands. Ive asked her "What turns you on, what turns you off, what gets your motor running" and she really doesnt have an answer for me. Shes like well I kinda like this and I kinda like that, but when I do that stuff, she usually starts laughing or giggling (Plus she is very ticklish). After the talks things are usually ok for a while, but then we fall back into the rut. Im really not complaining about it, because I love her to death and I think our relationship is very strong, its just that I would like to start exploring our sexuality together but shes easily distracted and has a lot on her plate, and I dont blame her for that. I was just posting for some advice from fellow members to see if maybe they have had similar circumstances and how they were able to get over that hurdle.
Thanks Guy/Gals
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