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My wife and I know each other on all levels... Yes there are things that I keep back from her. There are things that I keep back from my other good friends as well.
I don't believe that we can fully share *everything* with anyone. That said, my wife knows me better than anyone. She knows my fears and insecurities as well as my lusts and passions.
Neither of us thinks much if the other makes a comment like, "Hmmm... she's (or he's) cute." Appreciating beauty is not an issue... Being insensitive and saying, "I'd like to fuck her" is.
That's just being considerate. Imagine a platonic friend that is good at some sport, let's say hockey. The two of you are watching some other team play and you nudge your friend and say, "Wow, you suck compared to that guy." No very considerate (I am assuming honesty here rather than sarcasm).
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"My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars."
- Old Man Luedecke
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