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Having a doula or midwife is a great idea. We had our last two at home so all I have for you(as far as hospital birth) is the first child.
Write down her desires for the birhting process, and make sure the staff reads it.
Let her be in whatever position she feels comfortable with, My wife was flat on her back for the birth and felt this was extremely uncomfortable. First homebirth was standing up , and second was on all fours.
Dont let the doctor take control away from her, stand up for her rights.
If you plan to breast feed(please) keep the baby in moms room at all times. They will remove the child from the room for a few minutes to give it shots and such, but get it back ASAP.
Be calm....this is a natural process, and should be as enjoyable as possible.
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