It took me a long time to cry over my divorce. I don't think it is growing up -- I think when the time is right the tears will come (and come and come.) Tears are very healing -- maybe (even subconsciously) you aren't ready to heal yet as that would mean letting go.
Good luck and you are in my thoughts.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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