JayRock

I kinda have a problem and was wondering if anyone can help me out. My gf is new the whole love life thing but the one thing that peaves me the most is that she is so concerned about other things that go on in life, she totally misses the boat when it comes to being aroused or sexual. I dont know what it is with her, dont get me wrong, I love her to death, but sometimes I wonder if she ever gets aroused or horny or anything because I have the hardest time trying to get her going. Then once she is going nothing is the same twice. By that I mean one thing may work one night and not work at all the next. Im still searching for that magic button that gets her going, but I cant find it (and its almost been a year together). She is the most difficult puzzle Ive ever dealt with in my life.

So my question is, is there something I can do or tell her or help her out with that can get her going? Has anyone ever dealt with something like this before? Ive run out of ideas and she doesnt seem to know either. I would love if anyone could point me in the right direction because im lost.