There is still a a part of her waiting for closure as well.....her dad. If you were close to him, it may be helpful to you both to talk and cry....helping others thru loss can often lead to a breakthrough for the helper as well. It is also helpful to remember that the grief we feel is mostly a selfish reaction to "our" loss, as the one who passed is likely far better off than when they were here.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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