phredgreen

it's an issue of constructive criticism over blatant flaming...

when a perosn takes the time to point out what they take issue with, give reasons why they don't like it, and perhaps offer suggestions as to what they think might be a better idea, it's constructive criticism, and most times that's acceptable and even encouraged.

when a person dosen't take the time and effort to do those things and instead just flings out a mindless comment about how muhc that person/place/thing/situation/idea sucks, they're being a dumbass and will be treated as such.


it's a matter of contribution... when you have a counterpoint to someone's point, be sure you're effectively communicating the who/what/where/when/ and why of it so that you're adding to an ongoing discussion, not just parroting in with a mindless jab.


as to your question about wanting replies of that nature, the best way is to candidly solicit them. let people know, "hey, i want to know exactly how you feel, and if you feel i left something out or didn't get my point across clearly, i want you know let me know exactly how." it's best to state it plain and clear that you want all opinions, however positive or negative they are... it is the responder's responsibility to word their response in a constructive way... you deserve that, given the fact that you are putting yoru work out on display for them to critique.

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