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I agree that you can't stay friends. You've got to break and move on. Remind yourself that this was not a one-time drunken screw-up, this is the type of person she truly is. You don't need friends like that in your life.
Remember that there are typically two ways you can go with this period of your life: (1) you can go out every night and get drunk chasing pussy with your friends, while your career, self-development and finances go down the drain, or (2) you can immerse yourself in your personal and professional development and become a better person. With the latter of these two options, not only do you come out of this rough spot a better person, but you get the added benefit / satisfaction that your ex will see how great you are doing and will be kicking herself for her treatment of you. And while she may want to get back with you then, my guess is that you will be clearheaded enough to see what a classless and weak person she really is.
Good luck.
/BCD
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