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ya, communication is definately the key here, my fiance used to be the same way, actually for about 9 months of us going out, she wouldn't really allow herself to be pushed to the edge, then one day we sat down and I held her close to me and fingered the hell out of her for about a hour, she came at least 100 times during that hour, after that she completely loves it, it opened her up to it and now she finds it easier to cum when I give her oral and when we're having sex. I find it that with girls I've dated, a lot of girls havn't had an orgasm, they think they have, but then once they really experience one they are like what was that, I never had that before. Keyword communication, and also knowing the right way to hit her sensitive spots helps too, also a loving relationship and trust in one another is really great with that too, give it time, it will cum :-)
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