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Originally posted by tuffrr
I assume this is because they are not as easily "visually stimulated" than guys.
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That's a known misconception that has been proven wrong by science and psycology. I hope we can keep sterotypes like that off the board here.
Often, women have issues with pornography and sexual stimulation outside of a relationshup borne of insecurities that are based of taught behaviors. Ie: Someone grows up with a sterotype of the cheating male, always looking for their next chance at sexual satisfaction, will attribute such a behaviours as seeking other mates.
Both genders often act this out. Many males are no more comfortable with the idea of their girlfreind going to a stag review on a regualr basis with her girlfreinds. this sadly, is why it is so much harder for male strip clubs to obtain a liscense. because many subconsciously fear their SO finding something more attractive. this is compounded by a common streotype that it's mens natural instinct to seek out sexual symbolism in other women, even when in a relationship. That either are accepted ideas is simply telling of the sad state of gender relations.
No male has a "need" to see other women naked. And any gentalman that claims he "can't help it" or uses any excuse that it's something inherantly part of his gender has large hole in their head. He
chooses to.
By this same token, many women are often raised with an idea that any sexual imagery is a threat to their relationship.
In both cases, insecurities lie at the base of these actions.