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Enzomat · 02-07-2004, 10:15 AM

First off let me tell you ive seen plenty of fat, ugly , and even crippled guys with hott ass women. Maybe things are different where youre from but I know in america its really all about confidence and just being who you are. You might not get all over every chick you want but you can easily pull some premium scooch if you go on a limb and take a chance.

I know im not all that and ive done ok in my life in the chick dept(i could have done alot better but like you i had confidence issues and got scared to act on women who showed in terest in me). you get so worried about them saying no or embarassing youself you dont take the time to think that if dont take the risk you will never know. Im still kicking myself for turning down alot of offers thrown my way and not actingg on my instincts.

Its better to take the risk and have her say no than to be 70 years old always wondering what if.

That chick sounds like a tease and she may be playingg with you but sometime when youre alone call her bluff on it and ask her out or maybe when she starts to flirt with you take it up a notch. Id also heed your coworkers warnings about her. maybe she isnt that great of a person and oure just caught up in her looks and your desire to be with her. in the end all you need to do is ask her and if she says yes or no go from there. for every girl who says no thers about 1000 who will say yes. good luck mate and stay positive and be yourself.

02-07-2004, 10:15 AM	#4 (permalink)
Enzomat Upright	Go for it man youve got nothing to lose First off let me tell you ive seen plenty of fat, ugly , and even crippled guys with hott ass women. Maybe things are different where youre from but I know in america its really all about confidence and just being who you are. You might not get all over every chick you want but you can easily pull some premium scooch if you go on a limb and take a chance. I know im not all that and ive done ok in my life in the chick dept(i could have done alot better but like you i had confidence issues and got scared to act on women who showed in terest in me). you get so worried about them saying no or embarassing youself you dont take the time to think that if dont take the risk you will never know. Im still kicking myself for turning down alot of offers thrown my way and not actingg on my instincts. Its better to take the risk and have her say no than to be 70 years old always wondering what if. That chick sounds like a tease and she may be playingg with you but sometime when youre alone call her bluff on it and ask her out or maybe when she starts to flirt with you take it up a notch. Id also heed your coworkers warnings about her. maybe she isnt that great of a person and oure just caught up in her looks and your desire to be with her. in the end all you need to do is ask her and if she says yes or no go from there. for every girl who says no thers about 1000 who will say yes. good luck mate and stay positive and be yourself.