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Old 02-07-2004, 03:30 AM   #2 (permalink)
phoenix1002
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Here's my advice: call her up and ask her on a date. Don't beat yourself up, second-guessing every action and trying to analyze what she does. Girls send mixed signals without even thinking about it. If she's interested in a relationship, then she'll let you know. If she just thinks of you as a friend, then she'll tell you, and that's that. Either way, you'll know how she feels about you, so you'll be able to stop trying to figure it out by her 'clues'.

Think of it from this perspective-the way the situation is now, you're really only at the 'just friends' level, and you're kicking your own ass trying to figure out if there's the potential for more. If you ask her, then there's a possibility that you'll move past the 'just friends' level to the 'going out' level, or alternatively you'll remain at the 'just friends' level. But that way, at least you'll know where you stand. Trust me, its better to know where you stand with a girl, instead of being unsure. When your relationship is vague, there's also a much higher chance that you'll mindfuck yourself, which also is quite unpleasant (trust me, I speak from experience with that one).

I hope this makes some sense... I think I got what I was trying to say out, but I'm not too coherent at the moment...
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