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I feel you on this, man.
About 18 months ago, I was 55 pounds heavier, and 2 inches shorter and was NOT carrying it well. I had the girlfriend, but not much else was going for me.
Then I became single. It's been rough, and I'd forgotten how hard it was for me to meet women, but I'll tell you, if you don't believe in yourself, why would anyone else? I used to think that was just some motivational bullshit, but I started living by it. It's helped me to lose weight and feel better about myself.
Things always work out in the end. I konw that doesn't mean shit now, and I just sound like a presumptuous ass for saying it, but I say it truthfully out of experience.
And like somebody said earlier, if you're unhappy with something, make the decision to change it. Doing that can be the first step towards becoming happy with yourself. Not only will you be achieving something that makes you happy, but you'll be enjoying some new attention from others. Most importantly, it'll show you that you and only you are in control of yourself, and that's a great feeling.
And if you need someone to talk to, bitch at, or just vent with feel free to drop me a msg. Sometimes it helps to talk to someone that's been there (and for that matter, I'm still there...but I'm getting closer to who I want to be).
Hang in there, man.
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