Hi everyone.
I feel rather embarrased to say this, but what the hell, i need some serious advice.
ok.. im 22.. and was a virgin up till about 3 nights ago.
Sure ive had girlfriends and stuff, just that they never put out, and I never got beyond getting my fingers wet or a hand job.
Needless to say, the right hand was my best friend in these times of severe drought. When im doing that i have absolutely no problems with orgasms/ejac, and could easily finish up within a minute, and usually find it hard to last more than 5 mins.
Now I've got a great hot looking gf and weve had sex a couple of times so far.. the first night lasting about 1.5 hours with her orgasming 7 times, and me not even once. Last night same thing, but only about 30 mins (this time with no condom, thought it might make me more sensitive) and we stopped cos she had an early start for work.
I dont know what the hells going wrong, shes damn sexy, i was worried that i wouldnt last more than 5 minutes the first time (quite the opposite in fact)... and the second time i was trying to blow and nothing. I got close the second time doing from behind at a faster pace and longer duration, but had to stop cos her newly pierced clit ring was hurting
I dont really mind if i dont orgasm, I find it nice to know that im pleasuring her great... but at the end both times shes sayed how shes sorry and stuff, and ive reassured her LOTS that its definitely not her, shes lovely i dont know why im not blowin straight away... and i think shes accepted that... but still..
Also just a note that both times its been pretty late at night and ive been real tired lately, can that affect things.
Soooo, has too much masturbation desensitised me to normal sex? Am I too used to a tighter, faster thing wrapped around my pole?
Has anyone ever had a similar problem, or got some advice?
(I was going to ask her for a BJ towards the end, i think that may do the job, but chickened out)
I need help badly!!
