I've been single for 4 years now after I got out of a long term relationship that lasted 3 years. I'm more happy now than I was the last year of my last relationship. At this point in my life, I pretty much plan to be single for the rest of my life and don't see anything happening in the future to change that.
Thing is, all my friends are married and have kids. Then I see my friends in fights with their spouce, giving up things because the kids need something, can't afford this, don't have time to do that, etc...
And I cannot see myself living like that. I'm too independant, and love my freedom too much. Thing is, being single isn't for everyone. Hell it isn't for most people who need to define their life through relationships. But there is nothing wrong with being single, ever.
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