I'm so sorry, redrum.
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Originally posted by redrum
her and I never had closure in the relationship ending...we just sorta walked seperate directions.
so now I will never have the chance to close that chapter, and that is what is hurting.
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You can still get closure for yourself about it, about the whole thing.
Listen, I think you can expect your mind to be on overdrive for a while about this. That's normal. What you described--the "if only I had..." thing--is totally, totally normal. Don't beat yourself up that you're going there. AND know that it's temporary, shock-induced thinking that will subside over time.