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I think bottom line, just live your life. You can't design your life for some girl that may show up in the future and when she does she'll cause you to alter those plans anyway. I was single for eight years before my sweetie snatched me up. I, like you had pretty much decided I would be single for life. I got tired of all the hassle of relationships, the struggle to keep them afloat then the heartache when they finally sank. Being alone seemed safer and infinitely easier. There were some advantages. I moved to several great cities without having to consider some elses life, my money was all mine and I could live with the absolute certainty that if I screwed up royal the only life I would effect would be my own. People probably wondered a bit about why I was perpetually single but no one bugged me about it. (Well, my grandmother asked me once if I was gay, hoo boy thats a conversation you never want to have!) I just lived my life day by day and one day when I wasn't looking a beautiful intelligent sexy girl decided I needed a girlfriend. Next thing you know I'm engaged. Never saw it coming. Never would have believed it. So the long and short of it, if you stay single forever and can be happy with it cool. There is nothing wrong with having the confidence to stand on your own two feet. Personally I think you'll be like my story. One day, out of the blue Bam! The right girl
will snatch you up and make you feel all tingly. Good luck!
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