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Originally posted by phathom
Thanks for all the advice. We already told a close couple we know. They are really supportive since they were in the same position, but they are a little younger than us and made the decision not to keep it.
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Then they should be okay with it. Besides, it's YOUR life and YOUR child. It's up to you.
And, no disrespect to others' advice on here about waiting, but I think they would be more crushed by telling them 3 months or so down the road, vs. right away. The sooner you tell them, the more time they have to adjust and prepare and to let it sink it. I am sure you don't want to hear "when's it due?....Well, why didn't you tell us earlier?!?!? That's only 6 months away!!!"
Better to tell them now then later, IMHO.
But it's just a suggestions, it's your choice. Best of wishes, take care of her and the baby. That's really what matters most.