I'm going to go out on a limb here. It may be a bad guess, but... check it out anyway. It might be just the thing. If not, then I completely second what Strange Famous says.
Maybe there's something YOU'RE doing that she's resisting. Maybe you're pushing for things she doesn't want--maybe she's giving in to some things, and you're interpreting that as willingness and enjoyment, when really it's just giving in.
This happens A LOT in relationships. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong, per se. But take a good, hard look and see if there is anything to apologize for, to clean up. Any pressure you may be putting on her or anywhere you're expressing dissatisfaction. It might look a lot like over-the-top protestations that you ARE satisfied. Saying that might be covering up just the opposite, if you follow me.
Just a thought.
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