flamingdog

i have a theory that women and men actually hate each other, and were it not for sex, we would never interact. as it is, sex is the root of our power over each other and is the place where battle lines are drawn and dominance won or lost.

coming from a similar perspective, i would have to say that given all the mindgames and bullshit you talk about, you are infinitely better off out. as close as you are to it at this point in time, you just can't see it. sever all contact for a couple of months. don't snoop on her to see if she's online. stop caring about what she's doing. think about all the reasons you have to dislike her. anything it takes to keep you away from her.

few months down the line, you'll be wondering why you put up with it all. trust me, perspective comes with time, and you'll certainly be a stronger man for it.

good luck man.