He has to want to change. You can do an intervention and hope it wakes him up; but it may not. Then all you can do is decide what you want for yourself. Is this the type of activity you want to hang out with? Is this how you want to live your life? If not, walk away. Sometimes, most often actually, people have to hit bottom (loose everything: education, friends, money, opportunity, home) before they are ready to change. Ultimately you are only responsible for you. Best of luck.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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