I think Avarett is overgeneralising there.
Not all relationships start perfectly. Not all relationships end perfectly.
Life is grey, not black and white (IMHO).
I think you should tell her you'd like to take her out, but that the boyfriend must not be on the scene before anything like that could happen.
Me - not meaning to dump on anyone.
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