Isolate him or get him to isolate himself from his sources of pot and booze. Until then, you're wasting your energy even trying.
I wish there was something more helpful I could say or do. I've seen this eight to ten times, and everytime it's the same. You can't change them until they want to change, and some of them are in their 30s and still don't want to change.
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