alright everyone...get ready for a story that pretty
alright, i'm 20. i got this job at an icecream shop with my best friend. i've known him since first grade. it payed shitty, but hell it was a job. my first day i met this chick. i was all quiet and we didnt talk much. but it didnt take long at all for us to warm up to eachother. and damn she was a cutie, only 17 but very mature. she's one of those chicks that knows she's hot but really doesnt act it. she's a very chill stoner chick. and i myself am a VERY chill, former stoner guy.
she grew on me, and i on her. and before i know it....i'm crazy about her. i'm THE ONLY guy she flirst with, and for that matter holds conversations with. and when i flirt with another girl, she'll get all quiet and shit.
it never really occured to me that she really liked me untill the other day. me and my best friend were having one of our rare drunken, coke, indepth coversations. he decided to bring her up. the first thing he said was "man that girl wants you." i was perfectly fine with just being her friend, untill then.
he said that he'd hit on her once or twice, tried his moves and shit, and got nothing.
and all i've got to do is smile at her and she turns to butter, with a big smile that just lights up her face.
when she goes home and some of us are still at work it a "see you guys later....goodnight james (thats me)."
she's very comfortable around me. its weird. i was changing for work one day in the back room. she walked in with me in my boxers. if that had happened with any other chick, i would have been pretty fucking embarrassed. and if that had been any other guy, she would have the same. but it was all cool....like "opps, i'll try not to do that again, but thanks for the peak anyway."
i would love nothing more than to ask her out. i've wanted to for SO LONG.
i know she's got a boyfriend, not because she flat out told me, but because he's called her at work dozens of times. from what i know, he's a prick. one night he called her at work 20 times. i was pissed, and my best friend was pissed, so after probably the 18th time, he tells the guy to just chill for another hour. he gets pissed and threatens both of us....not by him coming down and kicking our asses, but HIS FUCKING FRIENDS doing it for him. its always my luck though, i find a great girl, and she's with an ass shit dick face.
generally i wouldnt have a problem with that, but this girl seems perfect for me. i dont think i've found one quite like her before. and i think my window of opportunity is dwindling. we both put in our two weeks on the same night together. and that means that on the day before valentines we are both done.
she's just moved kinda far from my house, but she's still just down the street from my school....which is hella far from my house.
i'm just trying to get some advice about what to do. i really dont think that she thinks that i'm all that interested in her, maybe that its just playful work flirting...but i am. i'm not going to try and steal her away from her boyfriend....i do believe in Karma, and thats just bad Karma. but i know that i could if i tried. nor do i want to just give up, because if i do that i'll never get the chance.
ive never been in this situation. its crappy...i feel like crap, and i hate that. i know what i could do, but i dont want to be a fool, nor do i want to make it look like i'm trying to steal her.
i'm just looking for some real advice.
Do i.....
A.) spill the guts and just tell her how i feel now?
B.) tell her that i'd still love to be friends with her, and then see where things go from there?
C.) tell her that she's a great girl and say that i want to be friends....and then when valentines rolls around do something nice for her?
D.) just give it up?
E.) be the "bad Karma man, and try to weasle my way in?"
F.) just ride it out...being cool? i've got her number. she's got mine.
HELP....BTW, i'll keep this updated as things progress. and i actually feel better just getting this off my chest.