Hey, my husband & I were in your position. We were scared beyond belief, although he has a child already. The thought he might be portrayed as a sex-fiend who makes girls pregnant, and then my parents who are christian would get mad- but it went over so well, we couldn't believe it. The only person who flipped, was my older brother, but that's normal.
Hey- just remember- you hadn't planned this, if either of your parents love you unconditionally, they will be more than happy to accept a grandchild. Be the best parents you can be, don't rush to get married an account of the child, and don't worry about what the parents think, even if it is hard that they may judge you guys on this. It would be ridiculous if they did.
Best of wishes, tell them, and do the best you can in being parents for this child.
And congratulations!!!!
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