From my own experience, it takes an open mind, willingness to try new things, and creativity.
Try more relaxing techniques such as Trantric, which can relax the mind and body.
I was the same way for a while, doing the basic things, but even to me it became monotonous(sp).
But, don't push her, instead talk with her about it. Don't make her feel uncomfortable, guilty, or blamed for this. Ask what she wants.
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