Hi everyone...
I have a problem and I am wondering if anyone else has been in the same situation.
I have been dating my GF for 2 years now, we have been living together for a little over a year...we both love each other very much, however, our sex life leaves a lot to be desired.
I really care love her very much and she truly is my best friend, however, we cannot seem to get the sex portion of our romance correct. She does not seem to enjoy sex at all unless we are in the missionary position...and many times it is impossible to get her turned on at all...no matter how much foreplay is involved.
I am still very attracted to her and she says the same to me, however, it seems that there is some sort of underlying issue which is causing our sex life to go to shit. When we first started dating, it was great...lots of chemistry, lots of sex, she was really enjoying it...these days (and since she has been on the pill for the past year really,) I just cannot seem to turn her on no matter what I do...
I am very concerned that we are sexually incompatible...and I am obviously hesitant to go forward to the next level in a relationship if I think that this might be an issue forever...
I really dont want to break her heart and I cant imagine having to go along without her, however, I am not sure what else to do?? I really would like to have an exciting sex life and i cant understan why she doesnt enjoy any other positions other than the bulk-standard
Am I giving up to easily? Is there something obvious I am doing wrong? (I always try and do whatever she asks, we do use toys sometimes, and I always try to be caring and romantic...)
Is this due to some sort of timing after her period??
Any help would be greatly appriciated......
