I think Adam Carolla summed it up the best by comparing our peices to a dog (male) and a cat (female). With a dog, you can play rough with it, rub it all over, and he'll love it. If you try that on a cat, she'll scratch your eyes out and run away. Be gentle, don't act like a drunken bear trying to get that last pickled egg in the jar.
But in all seriousness, since you have said that you haven't really gotten farther than making out, be careful to not overstep your boundaries. Make sure she's totally comfortable with it before you go any further. Once you've gotten all that out of the way, then you can use that scented warming lube and the leather cuffs.
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