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[B]Although she did make me want to fucking kill myself as much as she did make me happy, atleast their was happiness eh ? But now its gone , heh.
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Nice to hear you are not with this bitch anymore. This was enough to tell me the relationship wasn't a healthy one anyway. You can do better shoe.
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I dont understand how someone can love one, and forget about them so rapidly. How is that even possible?
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This, fortunately is her problem and not yours. She will have to overcome this emotional obstical she has not you. You, fortunately, have the ability to love somebody which means you can walk away from this relationship keeping your head up knowing you stayed true to your feelings.
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I rarely fall for girls but when i do it is quite incredible. Even more incredible that it NEVER FUCKING WORKS OUT.
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Sounds like you get One-Itis pretty easily. Since you are single now, I honestly reccommend finding my thread "Getting Girls 101" and reading it fully. Take whatever necessary from it and try to incorporate it into the next girls you start hanging out with. If you do, I promise you will be the one with the edge up next time
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Sorry for the bursts of anger.
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Bah dont be. The opposite sex can bring out the best in us as well as the worst. Start trying to realize she was the latter, and that you need to find somebody that you won't have to force to like you.
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Ah.. if only i could forget these past months things would be much better.
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Fuck that! Remember EVERYTHING about the past months. Remember how much she hurt you and how you will vow to yourself to never let a woman make you feel this way again. Feel the pain and use it constructively to putting energy into something that will better yourself, like working out. You have no idea how much that hurt can make you push yourself into getting in better shape. Also, the hurt will turn to hate soon and you need to hate her right now so you wont do something stupid like call her and beg her back.
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Well, atleast i can rely on someone showing up when you least expect it. Oh no i cant.. that last girl i am talking about was this unexpected girl. I am increasingly tired of being lonely.. and i go in deeper.
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Being lonely has nothing to do with having a girlfriend Shoe. Remember this. Sometimes people are at their lonliest when they are in an unhealthy relationship. Be thankful you didn't waste anymore time with this one, have children with her, or have a home together because she isn't the right one.
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How do i stay motivated? It just seems as if im in this huge void.
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Force yourself to go out with friends. Even when you feel like listening to sad music.. in the dark
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What doesnt kill you makes you stronger
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I live by this and it is totally true. Hang in there, it is always a great feeling when you finally look back and think to yourself, "WTF was I so upset over her for??" ...trust me you will
We all have been there. Yes, even me. Hang in there bro, and welcome to single life! (its more fun here anyway)
*EDIT* By the way, NO CONTACT WITH HER WHATSOEVER!! DO NOT BE HER FRIEND NOR SPEAK TO HER AGAIN! Later on down the line when you move on, possibly this could change but right now, severing contact completely is the only way you will heal faster. Dont listen to anybody who will tell you different!!