I haven't read all the posts before this one... but here's my two cents.
My ex boyfriend asked me if I wanted to marry him (yes, in a relatively drunken state) the week before he broke up with me. He had our wedding practically planned. When I brought it up later (as in, a few days, a week, somethign like that) he couldn't remember a bit of it.
I hope things work out for you.

He sounds like an awesome guy, and I really hope that everything turns out for the best.
