Heres what my 18 yrs of experience say:
Start on the outside of her clothes. You'll be able to get her plenty worked up from there. Don't go straight for the hoochie, work around it for a while and occasionally brush against it as if by accident. Teasing her by "beating around the bush" and not attacking her box will get her going more from the anticipation. Just don't go poking around like you're trying to shove you're finger in a play-doh can. Don't force your hand down her pants. If her pants are tight, don't even try it with them on cause all you'll do is hurt her. If you have to, work from the outside. Start off with your hand flat like you're just rubbing on it, then once it's lubed up a little start working fingers in slowly. Remember to keep your hand relaxed and be gentle (until she tells you different). Most of all, stay calm and don't be in a hurry. If she's new to it also, she'll feel more comfortable and make the experience better for both of you.
Don't try to work your fingers in and out like a jackhammer, typically a slow rubbing motion works better.
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Last edited by PDOUBLEOP; 02-02-2004 at 12:21 PM..
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