I can't give you a clear idea as to what to do, but you are describing exactly what my wife did with someone else. I have 2 kids and this happened 3 years. I am still with my wife and we still have a lot of work. The trust issue is the the biggest issue. Babaloo,I havee ahard time siding with you, so I'll speak from the other side. If you don't want to hurt anyone as you say, you are going to, big time. I love my wife and I was crushed when I found out. My heart still hurts talking about this. You need to evaluate yourself first. Decide what is best for you. In the end, you will have to rely on yourself because she will have her own problems when the shit hits the fan. Look deeply, soul-serach. What you do will change everything. Make sure you are also not thinking with your dick because your lovelife with your life ain 't so good. Good luck! Please stop the affair physically until you both have had a chance to think things over and how it will affect everyone. It will be devastating. Good luck!
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