I always say that if you want to have a girlfriend in your life, first you get a life to have her in. Honestly, I've know people who've gone around hunting for their other half and obsessed on it, and nothing ever happenedt.
Some of them, after a while, said, screw this, I'm not worrying about this anymore, I'm just going to get my life together and do some things I've wanted to and go in some directions I've wanted to.... and when they do, they usually end up finding the right somebody, without even really looking.
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